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Cinta Susanti
Hi what is the best pick-up line for a girl?
gzotlevee
hi ... (with a big smile) ...

imadh
let's join to my table
sian_lem
Your face is familiar. Have we met before?
longago
That would depend on what is it that you want to pick up on, of course. Or maybe others can elaborate better than me
kertawali
hi, will you be so kind to have a dinner with me to night ? [sooooo polite mode : ON]
bleach me
hi... do we ever meet before? or just my friend seems likes u?
thomaswidjanarko
HI....
Byeeee
(like sinchan)
smart dick
probably this procedure could help to pick a girl Peace.gif
in ur 1st met or ur first time to communicate with her,
stand or sit beside her, look in to her eye,
start conversation based on the situation,
try to appraise her and make any comfort,
if u feel the trick is run,
encourage urself to introduce ur name,
and don't forget to ask her name and phone number
Peace.gif
netto
hi..may i know u ?

than,he starts to make a little conversation with u

dking
Hi.. Why you look so sad.. So many boys so little times...
Ga nyambung ya? Hahaha...! [Confuse mode ON]
dking
Me : Hi..! What's size?
The girl : 6.2
Me : Really? May I see?
The girl : Sure
Me : This is cool..! Is it new?
The girl : Not really...
Me : Well, just go over there, the waves are better at that side..
The girl : OK..
Me : Btw, what is your name?
The girl : I am Jeanette
Me : Nice to see you Jeanette, I am DKing..
The girl : Nice to see you too DKing!
3 hours later
Me : How was the waves?
The girl : Hmmmmm.. good.. but the current is too strong for me.. I can't handle it..
Me : Well.. I saw you just now.. you good enough..
The girl : Really?
Me : Yes.. you are better then me.. (Laughing)
The girl : I have to go home now, bit tired..
Me : OK..! You going out tonight?
The girl : Yes.. any suggestion place for me?
Me : Ah.. of course, you can try Double Six at Seminyak.. I will be there at 2 o'clock
The girl : Sound good! Catch you there later then..
Me : OK.. Bye..
In Double Six
The girl : Hi.. I catch you..
Me : Hey.. Jeanette.. How are you?
The girl : Good, how are you?
Me : Good too.. c'mon have a seat..
The girl : Thank you..
Talking.. talking.. talking.. about many things....
At 5 o'clock
The girl : I have to go home now! I feel so high..
Me : Yes.. you seem so high.. I will drop you at your hotel.. c'mon..
The girl : You want to take me home?
Me : Yes, Is it OK?
The girl : Sure, thank you..
In front of hotel
The girl : You wanna come?
Me : Well.. OK..
............
............ just guess what happen next...

She is my girl friend now.. Hahahahaha

Sorry for my bad English! But trust me.. She is my girl friend now, a girl from Finland.
I am lucky.. with my bad English... A prettiest girl in the world became my girlfriend.
Hahahaha



siuman
the best way is to be urself... most girls are attracted to ur personality rather than your looks... looks will be faded once you grow old..... start an intellectual conversation smile.gif
kampongpay
Hi .. how much ??
free4r4li
hi, will be nice to meet you!
jojox
u should go like Joe Tribbiani from Friends:

"How YOU doin?"


and then you just play the game.

kitsilencer
Girls? Who needs girls? I have xbox 360!
blue fish
i agree...
smiles....
natural one...
for first impression, nothin better than that, i think...
the untouchable
i have no idea..
i think i'm gonna learn from u guys smile.gif
Kimi Barrichelo
Just saying hi cute... (tease mode = on)
Roninex
I'd say: "Excuse me. Just wanna say, you got something on your ... " (gesture with your finger, point towards your forehead)

That shouuld somehow startle and break her current pattern.

The say: "Here, let me get that for you." Pause for a while then, "Do you mind?"

Then you'd just pretend that you're wiping or picking at some imaginary dirt. While you do that, slowly and subtly put your face closer to her. Not to close, just a tad closer. Something like 1 foot away. And most importantly, SMILE. Softly.Don't grin. Just smile.

Then proceed with the transition open ended questions such as "Where do you work?" Now the point of the question is not so that you can ask further about what she does for living. To do that would spell out "BORING."

You ask open ended questions so that you can somehow connect her answer to that "imaginary dirt" you just wiped out from her forehead.

The main point here is rather paradoxical: You must not indicate interest (not romantically, at least) if you are interested to engage her romantically.

steven phang
hello cute, how r u ?
dtr225
just smile and say hello. anything else will follow
Renji Furuya
QUOTE (Roninex @ Jun 1 2009, 09:12 PM) *
I'd say: "Excuse me. Just wanna say, you got something on your ... " (gesture with your finger, point towards your forehead)

That shouuld somehow startle and break her current pattern.

The say: "Here, let me get that for you." Pause for a while then, "Do you mind?"

Then you'd just pretend that you're wiping or picking at some imaginary dirt. While you do that, slowly and subtly put your face closer to her. Not to close, just a tad closer. Something like 1 foot away. And most importantly, SMILE. Softly.Don't grin. Just smile.

Then proceed with the transition open ended questions such as "Where do you work?" Now the point of the question is not so that you can ask further about what she does for living. To do that would spell out "BORING."

You ask open ended questions so that you can somehow connect her answer to that "imaginary dirt" you just wiped out from her forehead.

The main point here is rather paradoxical: You must not indicate interest (not romantically, at least) if you are interested to engage her romantically.


I've tried this one.and guess what? it works!! thanks Roninex Hug.gif I owe you one,man!

Roninex
@ Renji Furuya,

glad to hear that it worked. Enigma, women are. Just some things I'd like to say. So please bear with me for a bit.

Indeed, women have to be liked and loved. They are not some "prey" for "predators" to hunt on. There is no one right way to "get" girls. Women are human too and they should be treated accordingly. Only when men realize that that they can "get" women. And I'm not talking about the cliched "Just be yourself." It won't work. Why? The social, emotional, biological and neuro-linguistic variables and perceptions between men and women are just way too different. That is why men and women are suppose to complement each other.

Men have to eliminate the thought of "dominance" or "superiority" - and by that I do not mean "be inferior" or "sucking-up" to women - but you have to BE and not only DO the kind of men that women would be interested in. And don't worry about asking women in general what kind of men are they interested in. They wouldn't know. Why? Because both men and women - humans - think and perceive things symbolically. Whatever they say they want usually are only reflections (symbolically speaking) of what they actually want.

So the bottom line is this: BE "the man" and not just DO what "the man" does. Study humans. Love humans. Admire humans. Lead humans. Improve humans.

Cheers all !!!

enflammer
QUOTE (kitsilencer @ Oct 31 2008, 04:43 PM) *
Girls? Who needs girls? I have xbox 360!


lol, true.. true..
füllhouse
U know last time I read in the newspaper that kissing can make happy..
so can I make u happy^^
vanilla_ice
hi ...
ur smile really cute
affan2fly
Treat her as somebody else, don't push your self pretend to become a prince, be yourself.
Remember this,..women are emotional, and men are logical. Therefore, sometimes you think you're in the rightway,..but the result is not what you want, because you use your logic. Do you notice, mostly women love to watch -what we call it-"sinetron"? because it played their emotion. Be yourself unpredictable, and full of surprises. Sometimes give, sometimes you don't.
DG_Community
xcuse me,have a hammer ? wakakakaaka
CyberB
Hi , the weather looks nice today. isn't it
Would you be so kind to share ur name ? im james btw smile.gif
Equil
***1***
me : " sorry bothering you but ... are you OK ?"
Girl : **must be a bit annoyed maybe ** "I'm fine ... is it somethin wrong ?"
me : "oh,.. no ... glad to hear that it is all fine, I tought you get a cold or fever or something, because for me ... you look so hot ..."

"then prepare your self to take her to another nice conversation ... or being slapped" hrhrhrhrhrhrhrh
jazz4all
funny for me because im not looking for that girl. That girl looking at me and asked my name. So we met frequently at Sky Rink (place for ice skating). She's a German-Russia girl. Weird but, she said im the first guy she can trust. Yup! She's my girlfriend ^^. SHe said that a nice "hi" and proper smile is good for start. THe rest, dont rely on look. Use your whatever feels comfortable to talk, BE yourself. That's what i've done.
the untouchable
wow i can use one of these pick up lines hehehehe
addictive25
I'll start to come over to her as I think of the funniest moment of my life so I'll have a smile on my face, and say.. Hi, you are … [wait 1 sec] … really … [wait 3 sec & look her in the eyes] … beautiful
prasarana
Hey, you got a nice hat. It's good for the weather. BTW, I'm john what's yours?
con4n007
hi
you look cute, may I know your name
ramera
hmmm.. maybe smthng about "hide"
the_loner113
nice shoes, wanna fish!!!

or give her opener like this " what do you think about nice guy and funny guy
domektis
depend on the situation, first we start with a smile, then make some conversation due to the situation, ex; if we in the restaurant we talk about the resto food, if we in cinema we talk about movie, so put the right thing on the right place
bluejas
Hi, I'm new in this town - do you think I could have directions to your house.
bach_dean
QUOTE (bluejas @ Aug 24 2009, 09:13 PM) *
Hi, I'm new in this town - do you think I could have directions to your house.


LOL...this is kinda old fasion, isn't it ? but quite Impressive though.
it might still work well in particular circumstance. but again i'd rather not to use it nowadays.

cheers,
bluejas
QUOTE (bach_dean @ Aug 25 2009, 08:43 AM) *
QUOTE (bluejas @ Aug 24 2009, 09:13 PM) *
Hi, I'm new in this town - do you think I could have directions to your house.


LOL...this is kinda old fasion, isn't it ? but quite Impressive though.
it might still work well in particular circumstance. but again i'd rather not to use it nowadays.

cheers,


well it work for me 1 time but the rest is end with disaster joged.gif lol.
bach_dean
QUOTE (bluejas @ Aug 25 2009, 03:58 PM) *
QUOTE (bach_dean @ Aug 25 2009, 08:43 AM) *
QUOTE (bluejas @ Aug 24 2009, 09:13 PM) *
Hi, I'm new in this town - do you think I could have directions to your house.


LOL...this is kinda old fasion, isn't it ? but quite Impressive though.
it might still work well in particular circumstance. but again i'd rather not to use it nowadays.

cheers,


well it work for me 1 time but the rest is end with disaster joged.gif lol.


:chaong:lol , i feel sorry for you then. it could have been a nice story if it ended up with romance.

cheers
fibercastel
Helo,.....................

seems i know u be4,................Tounge.gif
purepanda
yup just be urself~
n be confident
archangel77
hei baby , u wanna hang out with me?
tempe
here...here... this is my personal best:

"hi there, wanna play magic?? it's easy dear. Come with me, we'll have one-nighter, then you disappear!!"

warning: make sure she's totally wasted. should improvise a bit when she's tipsy. and never try this when she's sober....ever...2X!!
paul gilbert
Hi sexy....you look so awesome today.... BigGrin.gif
thomaskruger281
Well, for me, just be your self. try to entertain her in a polite manner. Be decent and ask for something (topic) that you think she also adore. Give her your simple smile and talk to her eye to eye because it will capture her trust. Of course, your attire should also be consider, be formal always. donning some suits like blue blazer or perhaps a four button suits because it will make you more charming and elegant to look at. Just a simple advice from a simple guy who have a lots of girls.LOL
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