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Roninex
Some people think that you can use just about any pick-up line to get a girl. Unfortunately it's much deeper than that. Read these easy steps and you are on your way to finding that perfect girl.

Courage. Most boys or some boys have a problem with speaking to the opposite sex. Actually, speaking to a girl is easy enough. Just shut out that little voice that says you can't do it. You can do it.

Style. Most girls won't date a dirty, grungy, ugly dude. Take into account what she seems to like based on her own style, but don't totally ignore your own personal preferences just to impress her. Fix yourself up. Comb or brush your hair. Take a shower. Brush your teeth. Smell good. Keep your own style. If it's a bit off, make jokes about it. Let her know when you know something is off or different, but that it's just a part of you. Don't change it: she might think it's cute. And in all of this please remember to laugh and have fun.

The Approach. You only get one chance at a first impression, so make it good. Don't use any cheesy pick-up lines...those almost never work. First, before approaching a girl do the "Breath Check." This is performed by cupping your hands together over your mouth and breathing into your hands and smelling your breath. Next, walk up to her and talk about how your cousin has the the same earrings as her and after a good conversation ask, "If I asked you to be my girlfriend, would you say yes?". If she says yes, that's good; if she says maybe, that's a yes and she's too shy to say yes or it might mean that she just doesn't want to hurt your feelings by saying no; and if she says no, leave her alone and don't worry.

Let her talk. Rember girls love to talk!

Be honest. Remember to say what you feel.

If all else fails, just walk away and be deliberate. Relax, take your time. You'll have plenty more chances to try again with another person. Just make sure you learn from your mistakes!

Don't be a "Backstreet Boy". Girls don't like these guys who wait for the girls to come to them, do it yourself. You are the one that likes the girl, correct?

Ask her to do something nice and "cute". Girls love eating ice cream, going to the beach, or going to amusement parks. Bring her a surprise gift, like flowers or something you know she likes.

Be humble. Yes, although it is good to show your abilities and get some recognition from a girl, many girls dislike it when you act too belligerent, all-mighty, or think you are just too good for your own.

Pay attention to her. See what she likes; her music, her style, and learn about it. No matter what girl, she will always be flattered if you pick up on something she's into.

Communication is #1. If you can't talk comfortably to her, you probably aren't ready to ask her out yet. Get to know her a little first if you can.

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kakang
sometimes i feel i do much attention to girl ...

in fact, girls are naturally like to be attention ...

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Rampo
What I do to get a girlfriend, is just do a little shake with my hair. If that ain't workin', I just grab my knife and force her to be my girlfriend...muahahahaha








Lol.
EmFeld
in my case, I'd go with HONESTY...cuz honesty is always the best policy, so try to be yourself, not someone else that she likes cuz that way you're actually hurting yourself... and then, ACT cusz girls hate it when you only talk about things without making it real...then you also have to show how much you CARE....last but not least, TELL her what you feel...simple right,

HONESTY - ACT - CARE -TELL
painedove
Hihihi... some are right, but some is totally crap... for me, as a girl of course.. i want a man who can just do nice things to me.. i mean infront of me.. it's okay if they cheat me behind.. that's really doesn't matter.. coz i'll do the same and get some horn for myself...Lol.. Oh i love being myself... hahaha...
bellzinho
juz appear as adorable one.., gve a little wink.., then u know what to do..(well..,since i m a charmin' one.., no need a rush on this one..)
huhuhu..
Wizard Of The Last Century
Well..
you forgot something very important...
Remember to ask her to be your girlfriend... LMAO.gif
PengemiS
girls need someone she can rely on.. be someone she comfortable to talk to and gives her your opinion if she asks for one.. must be a good one, not childish.. =)
andre-m
good tips. it covers most of your basic preparation. breath check and body odor check are required. the mental preparation is harder although once you get the chance to talk you may build up your confidence along the way.

first, don't think if you are trying to have a girlfriend/lover if you are really nervous. just talk as if you are trying to make a friend.

good humor may draw girls attention.
Psychoguy
well it doesn't matter what their gender is....as long as there is love and passion LMAO.gif LMAO.gif LMAO.gif .............that's what people say this day..... LMAO.gif LMAO.gif LMAO.gif
dickoo
in important a man must haves a lot money, don't care about character, characteristic, or although ahlak ugly its but if have money much beautiful womans sure weak in embrace. trust...
die Hoellekugel
QUOTE (painedove @ Nov 7 2007, 10:03 PM) *
Hihihi... some are right, but some is totally crap... for me, as a girl of course.. i want a man who can just do nice things to me.. i mean infront of me.. it's okay if they cheat me behind.. that's really doesn't matter.. coz i'll do the same and get some horn for myself...Lol.. Oh i love being myself... hahaha...



Hi Pai.....
it seems that I can fulfill whats ur dream
how bout make a new coupling? to hearty you, perhaps? Praying.gif
RAPIER
Just give her some Viagra for women. Y'know... That thing called "CASH."

^_^
die Hoellekugel
i tought it called passion, tender, love, honesty and so on... and so on....
yeah.... some crap like that
carrim7
most important thing to get a girl you must at least be sweet guy and a bad boy at the same time.
trust me it works.
if you being a really sweet guy the girl will definitely take advantage of you.
if being a bad boy all the time will push her away from you.
KuuR0
what a crap!!!
i had try all this thing,,but still get rejected!!
cryd3vil
If u don't handsome and rich.. They ain't be your girlfriend for long..
I juz had feel it.. HeHe.gif Juz joking..

If u really want her to be ur girlfriend.. Juz be honest with urself and with her..
I think juz that what I could add to this topic.. Peace.gif
west ice
Just be your self is also the main point
kadaljenius
well...
seems like we do everything for them..

right bro..?
mbah_marijan2
Just be your self... I think it's te best way to get the best girl for u smile.gif
bangetxxx
If you like the girl, come to her and say;
" I LIKE YOU , YOU LIKE ME"

Vboy
Hehe, How come I read this article once out there, called "How To Wiki" (http://www.wikihow.com). Anyway, My comment: Theory is easier than doing it. I got no problem with talking to girl, but whenever I have feeling for someone, it starts the real problem.... lol, mouth = 40% silent, Throwing-Talk-idea-Skill = -25%. lol
david_webb
this is a really nice thread
7kkovv34jfdsmfp
LoL.. good one bro... although this is good info.. sometimes following your guts is the way to go..
munkytrouble
yeah cos it feel great when a girl accepts you for what you are, warts and all.
gzotlevee
and all the tips above is just to make the girl like us, or maybe youll think they will notice our existence that way.
all that waste of time, all that sacrifice, all that pain just to show them how much we'll change just to make sure theyll feel comfortable.
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...
maybe not now girls...!!!
i've already through that time and you still doesnt notice me,
i've tried to be a man that you what and not a man what i am ...
sorry girls, i dont mean to be harsh,
but this is the experience that i get until now,
i'll never ever walk in a relation with a girl, with my heart again.
ferrazo79
I'd been chasing one girl last few month, and "How to Get a Girl to Be Your Girlfriend?" is simple..as for me, if you really wanted that girl, go for it..learn what she like..if you realy like her..you need to sacrifice. go for it..I have now get the girl.
lunghan
Thanks for the info
maxmanic
after all said above me......jsut ask her to be your girlfriend. don't be afraid getting reject. it's your consequences
Ahli_macho
whatever! girls around me like me just who i am.........
casper
be generous -- shower her with lots of gift
devil inside
love will find you if you try...

go get them boyz
DappeR DrakE
For all the suggestions was above, I more gave precedence to communication.

Because of that was the step in early before and in the period went out
gunzo
Will this also work for an affair? If yes, woooo... I will be so glad. unfortunately, It doesn't mate. hahaha...
prime1
it's easy to get a girl... give her more attentions than anyone, royal, and faith...
ha7332
i suggest persistence. dont stop trying even after getting rejected. eventually she might accept you
lion_king
Just try to be be honest to her....
irwant
How to get a girl to become your girlfriend?
First step get to know her which for some man needs a little push. Don't be ashame. If you are ashame with yourself, others will too.
Second step comfort her by always be there when she need you, be a good listener since girl like to talk and yes sometimes they can get very annoying
Third step impress her. Show your strength and don't be ashame also show your weaknesses.
Last step express your feeling. If being rejected then she is not worth it.
noteve
thank's for the suggestion
thediocker
Be more attention....act, speaks maybe gift.
And talk to her about your feel.
Just Simple thing, but important step in your life.
longago
hey hey..

another tip on girls

GREAT!
pepper
be nice..care..and tell them that u need them in your life.
rockmayday
do not act like perfect people, act naturally and being charming people. so you'll get her attention.

the very important point that i know to get more attention from girl is a big smile.
kitsilencer
Best advice: Stay at home and play xbox 360. LOTS more fun.
thcapriciousboy
nice tips YingYang.gif can i ask you brother how much girlfriend you have???

I have very few but most of them are not in good session Whew.gif Whew.gif

Thinking.gif i am thinking to manage another!!!
Manusia Kutu
Just LOVE her..it's enough i think
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